I know it has taken a while before responding to some of your questions, many apologies to you, I was finding facts for this topic on sponsorship, why it happens and the indicators. Don’t mistake me, I am talking about sponsorship relationship between sponsor and “sponsee” (for lack of a cheeky word). A sponsor is a financier in this case, he provides in the relationship and a “sponsee” is the private development in question gaining mutually from the sponsor irrespective of gender….Now you know!

Why this happens: Finding Happiness

Finding happiness is key to every relationship, you have to live the moment to see this happening. Happiness to me is like an orgasm, comes in the midst of other fun things, it’s never planned for (hahaha) but if you keep thinking about it then you will never have one. Not everyone likes form grass to grace concept, Do not Judge. People would go extra miles to find happiness and waiting on some “Work In Progress” to make it in life before they make them happy, has never been a constant variable to this concept. There has been lots of uproar on the ladies of nowadays who would want to date personalities rather than individuals, the so called personalities have offered so much in these relationship that we don’t see this as normal, in my own words, that’s a sponsorship.

Indicators: Discovering a “project” under sponsorship

My friend recently complained to have had a series of break ups with ladies, I had to dig deep down and find some leading information on how to recognize that your better half has hooked up with a sponsor. When you see your spouse who was an addict fun of Kiss 100 (radio station that plays 90% of the music Blues) suddenly proclaims her love for Rhumba music {an older generation Music), definitely there is some sort of sponsorship.

Let me explain why

After going through a number of relationships before I finally got married, I have come to equate this institution to a business entity. Relationship is like a business entity whose main product, a service called love. The attribute of a service is the physical aspect of it. Love cannot be touched yet it can be felt. Love just like any other service needs to be given that physical aspect, give your lover a ring, flower or anything as a show of this service. Think of the acquiring of shares, one tends to get a certificate of ownership. In love one gets a marriage certificate.

You’ve got to have money to sustain the equity stock (her) and only those with “Chums” progress their business to greater heights. You’ve got to be able to fight off competition, and threats of potential entrants in order to succeed in the “bizwise” environment. Be wise my brothers!!! Be Wise.

Hope this answers part 1 of your questions, Part 2 will only be visible to those who are legalized to go the horizontal way in order to make new born, it’s kind of sensitive….Pliz hit my inbox.

Now allow me to comfortably me sip my glass of water!!